Flash header in joomla template

I have a flash header in the joomla template that I'm using. It will not load for anything. I've tried everything that I can think of and notta. If anyone can check it out and tell me what's goin on with it, it'd be great.

http://www.jaymecoxx.com

...a little bit of info...

The URL does a frame redirect to http://71.186.161.138:8080/jaymecoxx/
I have it set up to do a port forward from 8080 on my router to port 80 on my server. You've gotta love Verizon for BLOCKING incomming port 80 on their new FIOS service. Why have the bandwidth if you can't use it? So...CHEAT. I have no other problems with things operating in this environment--just loading flash in my pages is being a pain in the bum. I have no idea why it loads everything but flash.