8mb backend db processing is normal I'd say, although I don't have any statistics to reference. I believe that is why your page doesn't display.
8 mb used by PHP script only, mysqld uses other memory space.
If i have 50 requests per second for example and execution time about 0.2 sec it will eat about 50*8*0.2 = 80 mb average memory usage.
For example if your hoster have 2048 mb RAM, you using 4% of resources.
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